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I asked how to find a nice guy, I'm in the army and I work a lot and guys don;t like that. They also don't like the whole being around other men all day and sometimes night. I am a cute girl and I love my job, I think I am an ok person, why cant I find someone sweet and funny? Also, I know men in the army who hit on me and ask me out but they all want to get married or want just , i want a relationship, that.. grows. Take it slow. Where do you find these, I'm not seeking but I am sort of looking, not desperate, just kind of thinking somethings wrong with me.