With so many masculine gay men why are gay men still portrayed as queens?

As a gay man with "professional" friends all very masculine I don't understand why in this day of gay acceptance, gays on television are still viewed as feminine? Will of "Will and Grace" is about the closest thing to today's gay man; yet they had to have Jack for the comedy aspect. Do we still have such stereotypes that need to be seen? Just once I'd like to see a gay man in the media where he doesn't come across as a feminine character. I'd love your feedback on this. Maybe I'm being to cynical.